{"id":5568,"date":"2020-02-28T10:26:55","date_gmt":"2020-02-28T15:26:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.harrynowell.com\/blog\/?p=5568"},"modified":"2022-05-29T08:14:31","modified_gmt":"2022-05-29T13:14:31","slug":"1164-praise-or-punish-for-better-behaviour","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.harrynowell.com\/blog\/2020\/02\/28\/1164-praise-or-punish-for-better-behaviour\/","title":{"rendered":"#1164 Praise or Punish for Better Behaviour?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"float: right; margin-left: 10px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-count=\"vertical\" data-url=\"http:\/\/www.harrynowell.com\/blog\/2020\/02\/28\/1164-praise-or-punish-for-better-behaviour\/\">Tweet<\/a><\/div>\n<p>He abruptly raised his hand as if to hit my lovely dog. My dog just looked at him, unsure what to think. My dog-walking, human acquaintance looked at me and said \u201cYou\u2019ve never hit your dog, have you?\u201d<br> <br> \u201cNo need\u2026\u201d<br> There are two ways to raise a dog \u2013 either through praise or punishment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.harrynowell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/Tigger.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5569\" width=\"236\" height=\"176\"\/><figcaption>My first dog, trained with praise.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p> We got in a discussion about training dogs. He came from a farm background where discipline was instilled with a heavy hand. I had taken another path, decades ago, inspired by a book called \u201cTraining your Dog Positively.\u201d In a nutshell, it promoted praising positive behaviour in a big way while acknowledging challenges with brief but succinct and mild corrections.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Both our dogs were very well-behaved and could walk off leash by our side. The difference was his dog worked from a basis of fear &#8211; \u201cI better be good or I\u2019ll be scolded or hurt.\u201d My dog functioned based on positive reinforcement \u2013 \u201cHe\u2019s nice to me when I work well.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"300\" height=\"321\" src=\"http:\/\/www.harrynowell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/2017BiscuitDogSquareWEB.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5570\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.harrynowell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/2017BiscuitDogSquareWEB.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.harrynowell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/2017BiscuitDogSquareWEB-280x300.jpg 280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption>Dog #2 praise and support<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p> The two mindsets create vastly different beings \u2013 one is fearful, one is positive:<br>\u2022  Opening with positive expectations and intrinsically positive outcomes creates an atmosphere of wanting to perform well. <br>\u2022 Coming in with a \u201cDo this, or else!\u201d attitude creates a tougher environment resulting in less (positive) risk taking and  community cohesiveness. <br> <br>Extrapolate these two mindsets to the classroom and you create two different learning environments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What positive reinforcement might look like:<br> \u2022&nbsp;To help establish expectations and positive outcomes during transitions I offer drumming opportunities to students (and the whole class) when they transition quickly. The drumming creates a positive outlet for the whole class to work towards. See my drumming transitions featured in <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"Professionally Speaking (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/professionallyspeaking.oct.ca\/september_2018\/sept_2018_ENG_PS_2018_AODA.pdf\" onclick=\"return TrackClick('https%3A%2F%2Fprofessionallyspeaking.oct.ca%2Fseptember_2018%2Fsept_2018_ENG_PS_2018_AODA.pdf','Professionally+Speaking')\" target=\"_blank\">Professionally Speaking<\/a>, &#8220;Get Creative&#8221; on page 32-34.<br>\u2022 Praise positive behaviour publicly: I draw class attention to a display when it exceeds expectations &#8211; \u201cWow! I love how Djenane has organized this science project.\u201d <br> \u2022 Address missed expectations \/ poor performance privately, quickly and with support: Quietly at their desk \u201cHi Robin, I notice your science project is missing parts. Are you ok? What do you need to make this better?\u201d <br>\u2022 Praise positive changes, however small: \u201cThanks for getting your shoes in the right spot today!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.harrynowell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/TiggerBiscuitCarolFroimovitchWEB.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5572\" width=\"269\" height=\"390\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.harrynowell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/TiggerBiscuitCarolFroimovitchWEB.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.harrynowell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/TiggerBiscuitCarolFroimovitchWEB-207x300.jpg 207w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 269px) 100vw, 269px\" \/><figcaption>The two dogs cast in clay by Carol Froimovitch<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p> Sometimes, stronger corrections are needed but they should be brief and effective before returning to positive praise in the classroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recently, I saw an article sharing quantified studies that recognized the <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"positive effects of praise and positive mindsets in teaching (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2020\/01\/30\/health\/teacher-praise-wellness\/index.html\" onclick=\"return TrackClick('https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cnn.com%2F2020%2F01%2F30%2Fhealth%2Fteacher-praise-wellness%2Findex.html','positive+effects+of+praise+and+positive+mindsets+in+teaching')\" target=\"_blank\">positive effects of praise and positive mindsets in teaching<\/a>. <br><br>The <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"studies (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/full\/10.1080\/01443410.2020.1711872\" onclick=\"return TrackClick('https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tandfonline.com%2Fdoi%2Ffull%2F10.1080%2F01443410.2020.1711872','studies')\" target=\"_blank\">studies<\/a> saw significant effects of positive teachers in controlled studies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Praise the positives publicly. <br>Manage the challenges quietly.<\/em><br> That\u2019s good news for my dogs and for students in the classroom. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tweet He abruptly raised his hand as if to hit my lovely dog. 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